girls & cheating

like eddie murphy once said, "..thats right i fucked her, but i make love to you".. and over the holidays ive had some insight on that (not thru experience mind u) i mean when a guy cheats on his gf its just because he isnt getting something he needs/wants, along the lines "i want sex, my girls isnt here, ill get it somewhere else".. but the important thing to note is that it doesnt mean anything, its cheating only for the sake of "release". On the other hand when a girl cheats then its personal, she will cheat because she isnt happy with something like "oh my bf has such a small dick, i think ill go fuck some big black guy" or she will do the brother just for revenge.. but they always make it personal.. see for a guy it would be like hes dining at a beautiful restaurant with nice atmosphere and he eats meat there, and he just loves that meat with the good sauce and everything and nice music as well of course.. this guy just keeps eating there cuz its so good but then the next day the place is closed for lets say a month but this guy wants his meat, so what does he do? he goes over to some shabby restaurant but he doesnt care what it looks like, or if it doesnt have atmosphere or even a fork and knife on the table, no cuz all he wants is meat even if it isnt as good. cheating is a very superficial thing with guys, a friend told me his insight and said the superficial part could go so far as that while u were doing this chick you would be thinking "damn how dumb is this bitch", simply meaning that he wouldnt care at all about the woman he was doing. I still think faith is a good thing but maybe when a guy cheats its not quite as bad as it may seem if he does have feelings for the girl.. and i dont think guys need to worry about their girls cheating, why u may ask? well simply cuz if she cheats, shes dumped! no second thoughts to it, it was a personal thing why she cheated so she shouldnt get a second chance. simple. its just like if a russian mob boss would ask "how do we know if we can trust this guy?" well he doesnt need to know, cuz if he cant trust him then he'll be dead...now this all shouldnt be an excuse for guys starting to cheat but it prolly shows that i needa get some sleep cuz im talkin out of my ass